Kinky Confidence: Want It Or Flaunt It?

I think we can all agree that natural not-overdone confidence looks good on everyone (I think that even if you get off to playing with poor, ill-confident souls, you may appreciate a well-fitted confident person, right?), but how sexually confident are you?

Sexual confidence can be rooted from so many places…it’s interesting to take time to sort it all out. Some people have innate confidence, as it appears to others (though I’m not sure I believe it). Some people have zero confidence, infinitely, as it appears to others (though I’m not sure I believe that either). There’s naturally beautiful sexual confidence — and over-egotistical sexual confidence. Some sexual confidence is built with time, some diminished — some built and diminished and built and diminished….

What do you think can decompose and break down sexual confidence? Could it be a cold lover (take nasty remarks – some affect me deeply, others I flip the finger to) physical changes, life’s stress? What do you think enhances sexual confidence? Could it be an encouraging lover, physical enhancements, or maybe just that one perfect moment in time?

For me, my sexual confidence goes through waves. Believe it or not, I’m most confident in situations where no one around me has insight into “me”…I can dance naked with the best of them in a crowd or be the first one to initiate a one-night-stand. On the other hand, I’ve been known to lose confidence when others are more aware of who I am and have insight into me.

Regardless, I believe sexual confidence is ALWAYS capable of being mastered…

and gets soooooo much better with each victory over those awful confidence-loss bumps-in-the-road!

😉

My questions tonight:

How sexually-confident-amped-up are you?

Have you always had it? Have you ever lost it?

And, even better…………

What makes or breaks you?

See you online tonight once again at 9pm MST!

~Wonder

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Masturbation: It’s In Your Hands!

Considering that almost all (I have heard some don’t – crazy, I know) people like to get their personal groove on from time-to-time, and because this “personal groove-on” is most-times private….I want to get nosy and get up in your undies!

Masturbation is seemingly human nature, an innate way of pleasing oneself, and not always sexual. Some people choose to masturbate with the explicit expectation to get off; others do so for psychological reasons, or even unknowingly — how many of you have caught yourself with your hand in your panties just while walking around the house – cmon’ now! Be honest!

I personally rarely masturbate to get off – I like to hang on tight while in bed, pinch myself when I’m just sitting reading…or driving…or making coffee….

I do masturbate to get off from time-to-time. I find it’s most often when I’ve been stuck in what I call “mid-orgasm”….that uncontrollable pulsating that just doesn’t go away and sometimes appears for no reason!

(See Scandalous! Spreading and Stretching, below).

Either way I enjoy touching myself, and that is all that’s important! 🙂

My questions tonight:

Do you enjoy masturbation? How often do you do it? Where?

And, even better…………

How far do you like to take it?

Do you do simple masturbation with pulling, tugging, pinching…

Or do you go all-out and pull out the vibes, toys, and/or kitchen utensils while gaping your ass full-force and fisting yourself??

See you online tonight once again at 9pm MST!

~Wonder

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Tonight’s Topic: Procrastination

No, seriously.

Ok…. So I’ve attended a backyard BBQ and it seems I won’t be home in time to blog away with you all….

Never fear! I’ll be here tomorrow night @9pm MST with a fresh topic for us to ‘bang’ around 😉