I think we can all agree that natural not-overdone confidence looks good on everyone (I think that even if you get off to playing with poor, ill-confident souls, you may appreciate a well-fitted confident person, right?), but how sexually confident are you?
Sexual confidence can be rooted from so many places…it’s interesting to take time to sort it all out. Some people have innate confidence, as it appears to others (though I’m not sure I believe it). Some people have zero confidence, infinitely, as it appears to others (though I’m not sure I believe that either). There’s naturally beautiful sexual confidence — and over-egotistical sexual confidence. Some sexual confidence is built with time, some diminished — some built and diminished and built and diminished….
What do you think can decompose and break down sexual confidence? Could it be a cold lover (take nasty remarks – some affect me deeply, others I flip the finger to) physical changes, life’s stress? What do you think enhances sexual confidence? Could it be an encouraging lover, physical enhancements, or maybe just that one perfect moment in time?
For me, my sexual confidence goes through waves. Believe it or not, I’m most confident in situations where no one around me has insight into “me”…I can dance naked with the best of them in a crowd or be the first one to initiate a one-night-stand. On the other hand, I’ve been known to lose confidence when others are more aware of who I am and have insight into me.
Regardless, I believe sexual confidence is ALWAYS capable of being mastered…
and gets soooooo much better with each victory over those awful confidence-loss bumps-in-the-road!
😉
My questions tonight:
How sexually-confident-amped-up are you?
Have you always had it? Have you ever lost it?
And, even better…………
What makes or breaks you?
See you online tonight once again at 9pm MST!
~Wonder
wondershockX 
im heeeerrrrreee !!! where is everyone?
waiting for YOU!!!!
Hey wonder, finally made it
welcome!
you seemed very confident to me. lol
i try to be confident – sometimes its natural, sometimes it takes work! what about you? tell us about your sexual confidence~!
mine? i gues it depends on the woman. i am not the best looking guy or in the best shape so sometimes i feel a bit awkward
i feel the same way sometimes – it helps me to have an atmosphere of non-judgement or that ever-awful critiquing eye!
Blue eyes can critique but I have never had a bad critique from a browneye…
hahahahahaaaa
Yay! wheres PK?
he said he’d be here! probably with his tongue in someone
Hey everyone, just in case this my only post I get in, lost alot of my sexual confidence when I was 14 first girl friend dumped me for my best friend really hurt and stung. But hey got alot of it back throughout the years lol. Hobbying has helped me alot sometimes almost has made me cocky. LOL if this is my only post tonight have a good one everyone.
HEY G!!!!
so glad you are here and glad you got it all out in one post LOL and you are just perfectly fashionably late!
as for the heartache…let me tell ya baby….that’s #1 on my list of confidence breakers. Pain makes us sometimes judge ourselves harshly….
Wow do not know how to act letting me post again. Wonder you have always been one of the most confident ladies I have known.
thank you, sir!
you’d be surprised though — we all have our less-than-confident days!
mine are usually environment induced. i have to keep myself in a productive, healthy, and supportive environment to keep confident!
I usually lose confidence when I am around more then two ladies. LOL
LOL!
i think i’d be confident! that they’d get the job done!
I agree… hobbying is a great confidence-booster. If you need your pipes cleaned, call a professional.
hahahah!
I haven’t my tongue in anyone’s ass since 4pm!
then you must have had your fingers in there since you haven’t been typing! lol!
Well, it definitely helps build my kinky confidence… having a girl roll over and push her butt up is a very nice signal.
yeah that usually is a good sign of the times to come~!
so i’m guessing homey gets his confidence boosters through others’ actions!
You’re right. Despite what you might think, I was raised to be a gentleman. And for me, that means deriving my pleasure through my partner. Hell, I can jack off and have a nice cum any time. But feeling the girl’s contractions around my tongue or finger…? and I am doing the happy dance all over the room (inside my head, of course).
that’s the spirit!!
i love “deriving my pleasure through my partner”
if we all did that…WOW!
Hot Stuff right there!!
Anna, my Ukranian lover, charmed me with the perfect chat message: “Hello Teddy Bear! Is it ok if I wake you with morning blowjob?” That’s what I like to give and receive… no pressure, just a nice gift.
LOL
a nice gift indeed!!!
a whole 4 1/2 hrs!!
In answer to blog question… majority of the time im very sexually confident. Like a freakin cat in heat! Rawr
indeed you are, sexy eyes! is there anything in particular that boosts that confidence?
If im dressed sexy or told how good i look or when its with someone i really like. Like that guy i told you about whos all rough with me. I can look like crap and not have showered in 2 days and still feel hot with him.
HELL YEAH! That’s what i’m talkin’ about!
i think it’s easy to tell in a glance if someone else is really into you, or just playing with words…depending on which one…it can make or break my confidence, or make me flip them off lol
Sometimes flipping people off will do it 😉
Sounds about right. Tongue in an oiled up butt hole lol
that’s ‘ol Homey for ya!!
I strongly recommend Vaseline total moisture Cocoa Radiant vitalizing body gel oil…. It doesn’t dribble away and it tastes good… plus, afterwards, your face smells like a day at the beach.
😀
oh that beachy summer glow! gotta love it!
it exudes total confidence!!
Putting it on my shopping list now
I actually have three bottles of it here in the studio, just in case. It’s also really nice for masturbating. Doesn’t dry out like creams and not as industrial as regular old Vaseline.
vas on the vag isn’t good!
But saliva never hurt a soul.
you wanna oil up my naughty bits for me pk? 😉
Can I call you Ben Doverbaby?
just dont call me Bob
Hello Tina you feeling confident or lucky
HA!
luckiness sometimes brings on the confidence! and confidence most times brings on the luckiness!
at the moment yes. i wont lie in light of recent events i havent felt so confident
don’t worry babe…you’re not alone
hence the topic tonight. HOWEVER, talking to you guys always helps me out!
also, i have to learn to NOT LET OTHERS take me down when it comes to my sexual confidence. however…sometimes easier said than done.
amen to that. getting daily emails saying messed up stuff takes a toll on you. im pretty thicked skin but also still just a girl. and thats why i have violent fantasy of brutally ass raping people lol
no doubt!!! hahahah!
hmmm…maybe that’s where my violent fantasies come from too….
and harsh words can take a toll on you…but the people handing them out want JUST THAT. and even though i know it, i still sometimes let it get to me much more than it should, which takes a toll on my sexuality, which carries on over to taking a toll on my everyday life.
so i think the brutal ass rape is a good thing. lol
Oh, I have a couple people on my list for THAT. Can you imagine offering to landscape someone’s entire front and back yard (and big ones at that) and having her roommate and sister accuse you of doing it just to get in her pants? And in the most insulting, violent terms possible. THAT was my Sunday night.
UGH! i may violently un-landscape that yard!
Actually, after a couple days, my friend hung up on her sister, discussed the plans with her hubby and the work started today. And do you know my motivation for the entire project?
Yes, so she could squish her naked toes into a nice soft lawn.
Fetish rules!!
FUCK YEAH!!!
😦 sadness!
You mean like when the girl says those three little words every man secretly dreads…..
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“Is it in?”
Hey now
You know we love you
And you know I love you too!
How do you guys feel about being called daddy? I was with someone the other day and as I was cumming I said “Im cumming daddy” and oh boy did he cum hard. thoughts?
who’s yer daddy baby
i LOVE it. i love love love it! but not with just anyone…gotta be the right person, right time..natural. otherwise it could just blow the whole thing lol
Nice just as long as you did not look under 18 years old
note to self dont call gq daddy when i dont have make up on lol
LOL
call him granddaddy
Ouch that hurt lol now you see you just made me lose all confidence again LMAO
as in “my my daddy, ain’t you just grand!”
heheh
Oh, you can LOOK under 18…
I love it too! The nastiest fantasy of all. Some of my favorite stories from the infancy of internet porn involved a dad going to a dark cathouse and then finding you-know-who.
oooooh!!!!!
i love it!
omg i was watching porn earleir and it was hilarious! it was the step daddy/ daughter porn ( i might have daddy issues lol shhh) and they were in the tub together and she goes “is it weird i still take baths with you” and he goes “well im your step father ive been bathing you ever since you were little” and then some hilibilly banjo music started playing
fiddle her! fiddle her!
it got even funnier when a cat showed up in the back ground and looked at them very disapprovingly
Nothing is funnier than bad porn!
Alright I gotta go but love this and being able to post again semi fast, take care all.
thanks for stoppin’ by G!
have a terrific week!!
xoxo
bye G
alright guys…i’m off to contemplate ways to keep my sexual confidence strong! prob gonna start with some wine! lol
love you guys, thanks for hangin’ out tonight!
until next time…..
~Wonder
xoxo
I’ll leave you with a quote from President Dwight Eisenhower: “Never question a man’s motives. You can always question his judgment, but never his motives.”