I’ve been contemplating the Dom/Sub topic a lot recently. This is a broad topic that ranges from simple Dominate/Submissive personality-type (sexual or otherwise), to the Dom/Sub all-encompassing underground lifestyle, to the professional Dominatrix in the workplace (what a workplace, huh? I can see the book title now: So Now You’re A Dominatrix: The Corporate World and You ).
I feel that because of it’s broad range, everyone can relate to the topic – subtly or not so subtly! Some people are merely dominate or submissive by nature…it doesn’t come out in extremes, but he or she is naturally comfortable with either taking the wheel or sitting in the backseat. Others like to experience the dom/sub relationship in just that – a full-time relationship! Some couples like the deep, dark, seedy, underground environment that takes the dom/sub relationship to the fetish level. Other couples just keep it to themselves in the bedroom. Sometimes, it’s simply the time and the place that sets a scene that wouldn’t otherwise be set. Some individuals prefer to tie a light hanky over their eyes to feel submissive…some prefer to get choked out, thrown down, and whipped!
Still, there are others that experience the absolute level of paraphilia with regard to domination and submission, in which sexual arousal and gratification absolutely depend upon it. This takes dominate/submissive behavior to the utmost psychological level – pain, masochistic humiliation, and sadistic inflictions to name a few – which many times is caused by starved psychiatric desires stemming from any multitude of experiences or genetic contributions.
So…..
My question tonight:
Which do you consider yourself? Dominate? Submissive? Verse?
And, even better…………
How far do you like to take it?
See you online tonight once again at 9pm MST!
~Wonder
My face smells like cocoa butter.
Hey all having troubles posting again so if I cannot anymore you will understand lol
So whats up pkdscans
why does your face smell like cocoa butter?
Does that mean I am sub?
Good evening everyone! Wonder has asked me to kick things off tonight but she will be here later on. So tonight Dom vs Sub… what is your take? Are you more Dom or more Sub? I personally am more submissive sexually but more dominant in the day to day.
Hello Tina I kinda go with the flow lol
What about in the day to day?
I have a feeling its not going to let me post after this post lol if so have a good night lol
oh no!
This sucks have a good night everyone not the blog just not being able to post take care
We can see geecue’s posts just fine.. I think he forgot to refresh the page.
i think he was too submissive to answer the question without direct permission
LOLOLOLOL
I am pretty switchy myself
Yay for switches!!
🙂
Day to day I tend to be independent… Follow me or fuck off.
Hmm, that sounds sorta dom when I say it like that.
lol i love that attitude! Thats kinda how I am with day to day things. Actually today someone told me im to nice to be dom but bitchy to be a sub lol
That’s funny!!
Right? I got a good laugh out of it
i understand that!
follow me or fuck off…..def my new quote!
(see fb update)
I don’t ask anyone to follow me… but for some reason they do. I realized that at least 6 women have my photos as their avatars on FB now.. WTF?
that deserves a high-five 😉
That’s why we get along so well….!
right on, homey!
Like my avatar, huh?
switches!!! LOL!!! ❤
yeah I started it all with the cocoa butter comment
I tend to be dom but there are some things I would beg for 🙂
You didnt answer why you smell like cocoa butter mister.
Oh, I missed that… I shot a model who oiled herself in Vaseline Cocoa Butter baby oil… and well things progressed from there.
I can’t resist a question like “If you want, you can lick my clit a little… right… here…” from a lady in lace gloves. Her “excuse” was she didn’t want to get oil on her gloves.
oh you naughty naughty boy you!
I love a good excuse
and she let me tongue her nice and deep too… took my thumb in her bottom, tongue in her puss and sucking on her clit
But it’s really hard to shoot with oily hands and face… but the shots after that were really nice.. Girls look so sexy after they cum.
Well damn that just sounds like a jolly good time for all
Yeah, I definitely had a smile on my face even after we had The Talk… the “just because I get naked for you and masturbate in front of you and let you suck my clit and ass doesn’t mean I am your girlfriend” talk 🙂
HAHAHAH “the talk”
And I was like um, yeah, you are 22 and I am not.. so where is the problem?
What makes you beg?
Ass…
I really like this topic. Its been on my mine lately… Ive been craving a good domination 😉
Naughty girl….that’s a good thing.
Yes certain sexy men in California have not done much to help the situation. Damn people and their inability to satisfy my needs… grr lol
Oh really… phone teasing?
Something like that lol Seriously tho as of late I feel like a damn cat in heat.
Ok it let me post again, actually been emailing this lady that is a submissive, she seems kind of shady lol
LOL hell with this too much work
like a professional sub?
I guess she is too hard to get a straight answer out of must want me to be more dominant take care all
Thats very strange
indeed.
Hey you sexy thing you
i’ve been building up immense anger, pain, and ‘evil eyes’ …you know what that’s good for?
ass fucking a photographer??
i definitely have one in mind!!!
Well you have a few to pic from now… nice to have options 🙂
lol whatev!
Although if Sunny bends over for you, please call me so I can get that captured
So it looks like just pkd and myself at the moment…. fail!
i just want a normal life and to be with my one true love…is that crazy?
Um, no.. nice gig if you can get it
it’s only as crazy as the people involved!
but if they can live with that … it’s most amazing! if they can’t…well….fail!
Welcome joeDirt! I dont think thats crazy at all, infact i think thats what most people want out of life
It is the standard optimum, but sometimes hard to achieve.
What is normal? My normal could be very very different from your normal… some peoples normal includes whips and chains and dungeons and day to day humiliation…
FAVORITE RESPONSE OF THE NIGHT.
Damn, girl…you are so intelligent AND a sexy come-hither-eyed babe!
How appropriate 🙂
😉
i met the girl, now i just need to make my move
oh lucky you!
That’s true… I would say if you are satisfied (not complacent) it is normal.
mmm satisfaction. i wonder what satisfaction tastes like… i imagine its full of creamy goodness
I got some satisfaction for you right here, baby….
is it full of creamy goodness?
why yes, in fact it is…. But it might be too thick for you….
lol hmmm we may have to test that
I’ll show you mine if you… no wait, you already showed me yours 🙂
get a room!! oh wait…
I don’t need a room. I have a studio… and red shoes is coming over tomorrow, Thursday I am going to Fountain to do corset-fitting and makeup lessons and then Friday I have a model coming over for a vibe session
this corset….is it for you or her? and this makeup lesson…..??? i think i know the vibe answer. heheh
LOL, nah, I am all organic… but I really like the cocoa butter baby oil now that I know about it. Nice thick consistency and smells like the beach.
You just met her, JoeDirt? You have a ways to go then.
Better have a few dates before you marry her
no, we met 6 years ago, but now its serious…lol
btw, nice avatar pic tina
Yes, it is… very lovely
thank you its courtesy of mister pkdscans 🙂 he makes me look good lol
It was a fun day, I enjoyed it immensely…
nice work
Thanks… be sure and ask Tina about her SuperDuck…. LOL
yay for misterduck
Well everyone it seems to be time to end this little 3 way party. Im sure Wonder will spank me for not making it more lively… but Im kinda down for a good spanking 😉 With that I shall bid you all good evening… remember you can rub one out on wondershockx.com and dont forget to follow on twitter for kinky updates and comical musings 🙂
MMMM…. sounds like a plan, TD… thanks for running the show!
nite everyone, til next time
I am so sorry i took so long 😦 thank you SOOOOOO much tina for doing a tina-takeover-tuesday!
What a shame…this was by far my most favorite topic as of yet – had so much to say!! :((((
i’ll catch up on the dialogue though for sure!
we can always have the same topic next time 🙂
tell wonder i said hi
picks up the bottles and cans and heads out to the recycling center….