I’ve been contemplating the Dom/Sub topic a lot recently. This is a broad topic that ranges from simple Dominate/Submissive personality-type (sexual or otherwise), to the Dom/Sub all-encompassing underground lifestyle, to the professional Dominatrix in the workplace (what a workplace, huh? I can see the book title now: So Now You’re A Dominatrix: The Corporate World and You ).
I feel that because of it’s broad range, everyone can relate to the topic – subtly or not so subtly! Some people are merely dominate or submissive by nature…it doesn’t come out in extremes, but he or she is naturally comfortable with either taking the wheel or sitting in the backseat. Others like to experience the dom/sub relationship in just that – a full-time relationship! Some couples like the deep, dark, seedy, underground environment that takes the dom/sub relationship to the fetish level. Other couples just keep it to themselves in the bedroom. Sometimes, it’s simply the time and the place that sets a scene that wouldn’t otherwise be set. Some individuals prefer to tie a light hanky over their eyes to feel submissive…some prefer to get choked out, thrown down, and whipped!
Still, there are others that experience the absolute level of paraphilia with regard to domination and submission, in which sexual arousal and gratification absolutely depend upon it. This takes dominate/submissive behavior to the utmost psychological level – pain, masochistic humiliation, and sadistic inflictions to name a few – which many times is caused by starved psychiatric desires stemming from any multitude of experiences or genetic contributions.
So…..
My question tonight:
Which do you consider yourself? Dominate? Submissive? Verse?
And, even better…………
How far do you like to take it?
See you online tonight once again at 9pm MST!
~Wonder
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